Sex: What is the proper way to comprehend orgasm and masturbation?
Shaun Pullock, a well-known actor, is the spouse of teacher Mary Jane. She has a postdoctoral fellowship in sociology from Peking University and a PhD in sociology from the University of Pittsburgh. Research and studies on sex, gender, marriage, and families have taken centre stage over the last few decades. Over the past 30 years, many of her conclusions have come to pass. On the video conference platform vvfit.com, she also frequently engages with internet users on the subject of sex and marriage. She is so obsessed with masculine things that if she wanted to eat cake, she would only choose a penis cake. The outlook is pretty favourable.
I'm posting a sex article today about how to comprehend
orgasm and whether masturbating is actually damaging.
1. How to correctly understand orgasm?
Concern over orgasm is a major issue in sexology. After
studying sexology, it was discovered that the "four-stage" process of
human orgasm is as follows:
The first stage is the excitement phase, during which men
start to acquire erections, women start to have larger breasts, and various
other physical changes start to occur.
The second one, often known as the plateau period, follows, and it keeps the thrill going.
The orgasm is the name for the third stage. The rhythmic contraction of the female vagina and the male ejaculation occur at this moment.
The fourth period, sometimes known as the fading period, will
then begin. The cameras and various laboratory measurements supported this
claim.
There has been history in relation to orgasm. Men don't say
anything. Ejaculation is seen by all as an orgasm. However, Freud previously
suggested that there are two distinct sorts of female orgasm: "clitoris
orgasm" and "vaginal orgasm" in his day. Therefore, vaginal
orgasm is mature, whereas clitoral orgasm is a sign of immaturity.
How did he interpret that? Clitoris orgasm is frequently
produced by inducing clitoral masturbation, and a guy will often deliver her
this vaginal orgasm during sexual activity. He experiences an orgasmic masturbation.
The gender role is incorrect. She leads a busy life. He
thinks that women should play a passive role in sexual activity and that males
should be the ones to initiate orgasms for them.
The orgasm she experiences while caressing her clitoris is an
active behaviour during her masturbation. She is therefore not a mature woman
and does not fit the stereotype of a woman. It is an example of how immature
women are.
The very well-known sexologists and sex therapists in the
United States, like Masters (William Howell Masters) and Johnson, have heard of
this hypothesis (Virginia Eshelman Johnson).
What did Johnson and Masters do? What took place? They used
several of the most recent techniques to conduct laboratory studies on orgasm
and sexual behaviour.
If you've ever watched the American drama "Sex
Masters," it accurately portrays Masters and Johnson's entire study career
as well as their relationship.
When the two of them were studying, they employed a number of
awful techniques, such as placing electrodes on the body to detect heartbeat
and pulse in various ways.
The most significant development was the development of a
hollow glass tube that can be inserted into the vagina and into which a tiny
camera can be placed to record the complete female orgasmic process.
Their work challenges Freud's difference between clitoral and
vaginal orgasms, which they believe to be false. Because he found that the
alleged differentiation is not there during this process.
Orgasms in women follow the same four-stage procedure as
described above. It is the same process whether it is gained through sexual
activity or masturbation. This disproves Freud's hypothesis.
Female cumshot can be caused by a sensitive area that is 5 cm
from the female vagina's front wall.
Glassen Berger was a sexologist who appeared later, following
Masters and Johnson. Additionally, he found a sensitive area 5 cm from the
female vagina's front wall. This tender area is readily the source of sexual
arousal. When she came into orgasm, she would cumshot.
The term "Squirt" was later used to describe terms
that were imported from Japan.
What is a female's G-Spot?
Testing revealed that the type of cumshot she experienced
after an orgasm was quite similar to the makeup of male semen. This device
appeared to differentiate between clitoral and G-spot orgasm.
Why is G-Spot known as that?
Later, people gave this newly discovered sexually sensitive
region the name "G spot," which is the initial letter of Glasson Berg's
name.
In actuality, the G-spot-induced orgasm and clitoris
stimulation both occur through the same mechanism. Not two procedures, just
one. It does not imply that it is possible to tell which people are young or
old.
At the end of the discussion, everyone came to the scientific
conclusion that both men and women actually went through this four-stage
procedure.
In terms of the difference between male and female orgasm, we
can state that while women have discovered that there is a proportion through social
surveys, males will experience orgasm nearly 100% of the time in their lives,
with the exception of a very tiny number of persons with organic conditions.
Only a small fraction of people have never had an orgasm.
When we compare this ratio among nations, we find that it may range between 6%
and 10%.
The only exception we could find was in a national sample
study done in China in 2014, where 28% of women in the 60–64 age range reported
never had an orgasm. The data is very high. All individuals in this age group
were born in their 40s or 50s.
They have a very unusual environment during their entire
existence, including during adolescence. They lack sex education and are fierce
opponents of abstinence. Nobody informs her of it. Given that orgasm can occur
in such large quantities, the subject is entirely unknown.
This also explains the difference between male and female
orgasms—namely, that men will naturally have orgasms, but women go through a
learning and exploring process. This distinction between male and female
orgasms should be made clear.
Is masturbating truly bad for you?
Masturbation-related attitudes among men have a long history.
There are ferocious battles going on. I want to start by giving you a review
because the attitudes of confirming it and denying it can be quite severe in
this conflict. the ongoing argument about the matter.
We first learned that there were records indicating that some
physicians in Europe promoted the "harmful masturbation notion"
throughout the eighteenth century. They claimed that masturbation and a number
of ailments were related.
There was nothing unique about this treatment at the time.
Developed. What are the causes of several physical phenomena? Since medicine
hasn't actually advanced, misconceptions and associations will develop.
This group of medical professionals published numerous
publications and booklets at the time, putting forth the hypothesis that
masturbation can cause a variety of rare disorders.
Tuberculosis, which causes nerve splits, epilepsy, and a variety of other very weird ailments, is more evil than what is more logical and can lead to restlessness and sluggishness. Many different diseases can be brought on by masturbation. People in the 18th century believed this.
There is something very intriguing. You may be aware that
Michel Foucault, the most well-known French academic of the 20th century, once
stated that because there are many masturbators in China, the French public's
perception of the practise remained in France in the 18th century. The notion
that masturbating is harmful is also prevalent.
Masturbation is so hazardous and it can result in so many
problems, therefore you need to find a solution to treat it. After believing
that masturbation is detrimental, there are numerous treatments that claim that
certain boys and girls are somewhat addicted to masturbation or whatever.
We can observe that one of them mentions a procedure to
address a girl's masturbating in historical documents. At the time, numerous
people carried out this procedure.
To cure masturbation, they used a soldering iron on her labia
majora. They double-clicked on the left, then the right, and then tapped on the
clitoris before burning it. So long as the girl doesn't masturbate, the
clitoris is unquestionably gone, and she is finished. Now, this kind of
practise sounds dreadful.
This type of genital circumcision for girls is still
practised today in some African nations. The whole labia majora, labia minora,
and clitoris are removed during what is sometimes referred to as genital
circumcision.
Girls get this kind of surgery. It is pretty typical for them
to do it when they are 7 or 8 years old. In Sudan, 85% of girls reportedly
engage in it.
This subject is of the utmost seriousness. Is it dangerous to masturbate?
Modern sex research, however, holds that masturbating is
perfectly safe. The process of orgasm brought on by masturbation is exactly the
same as that of sexual contact, according to scientific studies, and it is
identical from an anatomical standpoint.
Therefore, if masturbating is detrimental, then sexual activity is also harmful. The only conclusion that can be made is that. Due to these two factors, the procedure by which it occurs in the body is the same as the complete process of physiological changes.
Why would masturbation be bad?
Sexual activity is detrimental if you believe that masturbating is harmful. How can humans reproduce if sexual activity is detrimental, you ask?
There is still hardship during the entire procedure. Although
this has been shown by contemporary science, people's way of thinking has
contributed to other things.
For instance, the Bible refers to masturbation as "the
sin of Onan." He said that an ejaculation occurred outside the vagina but
not inside. It is referred to as "Onan's Sin." Religions are so
opposed, much like missions.
They forbid people from engaging in this type of masturbation
from the standpoint of abstinence. The trend of demonising masturbation is
really prevalent as a result of this kind of action and activity.
For instance, there are many "rebooting" in Asia
right now, and they are promoting the idea that masturbation is dangerous
despite the lack of strong supporting data. Masturbation has a long history of
being deemed dangerous, and today, female genital mutilation is practised in
many nations, including Africa. This kind of thinking is still quite prevalent
because it is still a frequent practise.
I seem to recall that China also has a webpage. They
performed some remarkable feats. When a sexology teacher was giving a report at
a sex culture festival in Guangzhou, for instance, they would get up and splash
dung. As a result, everyone I know refers to them as "Auntie Splashing
Dung."
They once dumped excrement on me, and I just so happened to
notice that they had something to say about me. They enhance my photo before
doing something stupid like spilling excrement. I understand what they stated,
that Li Yinhe truly believed that masturbation was not harmful. One of my
responsibilities is to spread the word about masturbation's safety.
You can see from this that there is constant discussion on
whether masturbation is harmful or harmless among people and in society. But I
can tell you that the most recent scientific study on sexology is based on the
argument that masturbating is safe.
Due to the fact that the primary basis is also studied in the
lab, it is discovered that the process of masturbating to have an orgasm is
exactly the same in the body as the process of sexual intercourse, making it
absolutely harmless.
Because masturbation has a long history and is a very cruel
habit, sexology now widely supports this position, but it will take some time
for everyone to adopt this view. to the present, please.
What is the rate of masturbation among men and women?
Sexology researches people's diverse sexual habits as well as
the likelihood of those behaviours. According to studies from around the world,
men masturbate at a rate that is almost 100%, while women do so at a rate of
70%.
Whether masturbation has a degree is up for debate. This has major significance. Everything is sufficient. As a result, the golden mean is a topic of discussion in China. The golden mean is the most traditional Chinese knowledge. There is still a degree available if it is too late.
Masturbation is not harmful unless it is overdone, just like
sexual activity is not harmful. This is similar to eating. You must eat till
you are satisfied or else you risk being 80% or 70% full.
Not being excessively obese or anything, 60% full is for good health. Then this thing will be hazardous, it won't be beneficial for your body, it will be bad if you are 10% full or even after eating.
Masturbation in moderation is safe, but excessive
masturbation is dangerous. The two dimensions, or two conceptions, of
masturbation that we just described are its harmfulness and its harmlessness.
Asking if sexual activity is harmful or harmless is analogous
to understanding whether masturbating is harmful or harmless. Then we respond
that it is unquestionably harmless, and even if it can aid in your
understanding of the relative harms and benefits of eating, we still must state
that it is harmless.
The second issue is that if anything is overdone or done too
much, it can turn from being innocuous to being harmful and cause actual harm.
This is a higher degree of injury.
Where is this degree then? This is yet another issue. I once
discussed this topic with some sexologists. Ruan Fangfu, one of the earliest
sexologists in China, practises in our country. In the early stages of reform
and opening up, he released a "Sex Knowledge Handbook." It was sold
this "Sex Knowledge Handbook."
Because this was the only book available at the time about
sex knowledge and the author is an experienced sexologist who is over 80, there
are thousands, hundreds of thousands, and millions of books. I questioned him
about sex, this degree, and how fantastic it is when I saw him in person.
He agreed right away. It goes without saying that more is
better. This basic understanding of sexology. But what is excess really? Now
that sex addiction is being discussed, how can it be described as excessive or
an addiction?
It serves as a barometer and a warning that the degree may or
may not climax.
Don't overdo it if you can still have an orgasm. It's over if
you can't have an orgasm any longer yet still insist on having one. We can
therefore understand this degree in this way: Eating is fine, but don't eat and
support. This degree is where? You are then satiated.
Sex is undoubtedly positive. To claim that this thing is
hazardous in and of itself is to invite tuberculosis, epilepsy, and other
illnesses. It is an especially illiterate viewpoint. Masturbation is a good
thing in and of itself, but it also has a limit. Where is it then? It simply
cannot orgasm. If you have to force an orgasm after you can't, it could be
dangerous.
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Dr. Shawna Reason |
Education: MBBS, MD
Occupation: Medical Doctor / Virologist
Specialization: Medical Science, Micro Biology / Virology, Natural Treatment
Experience: 15 Years as a Medical Practitioner
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